The hard stuff    

Maybe your tired-ness is from being parentified…

You took on the parenting role for adults in your formative years and now that you are an adult you are...
Efe Isaac
2 min read

I thought she wanted kids but..

My step mother wanted her own kids from her groin. She went through numerous IVF sessions, she cried for them, she...
Efe Isaac
1 min read

From someone who has Lived a Lie before…

From the age of nine, I remember saying “Yes” when I meant “No” or “No” when I meant “Yes”. I was...
Efe Isaac
9 min read

Life    

6 hours of my life with JetBlue Airways revealed to me that…

There is something about the airport travel experience. The drive to the airport and the feeling of leaving emotions...
Efe Isaac
5 min read

Behind the smiles of getting a new car..

I am here at Buick dealership happy, scared and anxious about the responsibility of getting my first New car...
Efe Isaac
3 min read

I didn’t know I was a BLACK person until I came to America

The first time I saw a white person in-person, not tv. was my first time on a flight to...
Efe Isaac
9 min read

You are not broken sweetie, stop fixing yourself, start Living…

No seriously, what if you really don’t need fixing? I was one of those people that hated the way...
Efe Isaac
12 min read

The Back and forth of loosing and Gaining YOURSELF

I came home last night from acting class, it was about 10pm…bed time. I go over to the living...
Efe Isaac
9 min read

Why am I always the only one who initiates things in relationships?

The emotional exhaustion of always having to be the one to initiate things with people sucks! We are the...
Efe Isaac
9 min read

You need Laziness too.

In this day and age, we love some good sense of ambition. Go to school and get that degree!...
Efe Isaac
4 min read

Culture    

I know you feel stuck but..

I know you feel like you are stuck but I want to tell you that you’re not stuck. I just think...
Efe Isaac
3 min read

All Stories

You Solo Travel without your husband? Yes. He didn’t die because of it.

This lady and I got talking during a hike in LA. She noticed I was by myself. She knew I was...
Efe Isaac
5 min read